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We can't change other people. People change only when they want to...when someone says they will stop doing what they are to please you, chances  are slim to none that they actually will.

People do what is important to them.  What they perceive to be in their best self interest.....

Look at it this way...maybe they're doing you a favor now Do you really want to invest more of your time into someone who has no time for you? If    they are placing everyone/thing before you, will you be content to always be in last place?

I doubt it...

Hey, your time matters too! Don't ever sell yourself short.
We all have busy lives and our time is valuable.....

It just may be true they have no free time for you at this time in their life...but why wait until they do?

Life has been going by so quickly lately I can't believe it's already  January 19th!

Surround yourself with others who  do make time for you....you don't have to drop out of the lives of those   who don't have time for you now....just   keep moving...things change constantly.

"Change is the only constant"

It's not just time someone can withhold from you..it can be anything.
I get alot of call about cheaters...will they stop? Maybe but...maybe not. They may for a while because they got caught THEY have to be the ones that    want to. THEY have to see what their deceptions are doing to you...how they are hurting you.

Drug or alcohol abuse...same thing. THEY have to want to.

Suffering with an illness...(either physical or mental) is something you have to consider for yourself.  There is help available yet again, they have to    want to accept it. You can't change them....

Bottom line...do you really want to put your life on hold for anyone?  What are you missing out on when you do ? Is it worth it?

What message is someone sending you about their view of  you?
Are they keeping their promises? Are they making time for you?  Are they getting the help they need? Are they there when you need someone?

Never let anyone decrease your value...YOU matter....and I promise you, there is someone out there who will let you know how important you are to them....
And it's well worth the wait.....

We have to accept others as they are...and we have to discover how or where they fit into our lives...or if they need to be in our lives. At times, the answer is no.

Letting go can be painful. For humans, we dislike change even when we realize it's in our best interests.  We get comfortable and the routine is familiar  to us even if it's detrimental.....

Imagine  the adventure of change...even the small changes we make have an enormous effect on us....and those around us.

Remember who you are...