Intuition
Intuition and domestic violence.
I've been told my intuition did save me from even more grief. If only I had listened to it from the beginning....
He told me I was crazy. He loved me and would never hurt me in anyway.
He pushed and pushed for us to get married. I said I would.....someday.
He insisted and eventually we got a marriage license but I couldn't go through with it.....we told everyone we were and we wore wedding rings.
After his ex wife contacted me about the money he owed her things got bad. I'm not sure why really as I believed his story, not hers.
I received a message on his site (that's how his ex got in touch with me) and it wasa threat to me ....and she later threatened my son.
(This is a woman who he told me didn't care about anyone...not even her own daughters) She said she would call social services . She wanted to take my son from his home.
I told him he couldn't come back to my home anymore.....she was going to hurt my family...my son, because she was angry at him. He refused to take care of his problem with her and saw nothing wrong with her threats against me and my family.
He saw nothing wrong with the threats against me and my family.....
When I asked him why anyone in their late 50's (old enough to know better and be an adult was my thinking) would come to me when they had a problem with him he made excuses for her...she was trying to get me to feel sorry for her and give her the money.
HUH? Yes, that's what he said....
When I asked why she threatened me and not him....he said, "That's just what she does."
HUH? He had already told me how not many liked her and she was always in trouble with neighbors...but I still couldn't understand why anyone would come after me and my family if they were angry at him....it made sense to him though....
He then told me about something she thought was fun to do. They would be driving down the road and she would open her car door on someone riding a bike or scooter...as if she was trying to knock them off or at least scare them. These were strangers to her and not someone she had a grudge against.
He said he thought it was disgusting and he wasn't a part of it. He stayed with her though.
Things were just getting to crazy....I didn't want it in my home anymore. He wasn't going to do anything about his problem and he certainly wasn't going to do anything to protect us.....
He went back to Florida again...and his site went down the same day he was leaving. He said it was hacked but I believed he was protecting his ex....it's against the law to communicate a threat and in the state of Florida it's a felony to call DSS to make false accusations about a child when the person making the call is angry at an adult in the home.
My site was taken down too...all I had was lost..all emails etc....some were from her.
Who was he protecting and why? He was the one that had access to both sites. He was an admin on mine as well.....
I've been told my intuition did save me from even more grief. If only I had listened to it from the beginning....
He told me I was crazy. He loved me and would never hurt me in anyway.
He pushed and pushed for us to get married. I said I would.....someday.
He insisted and eventually we got a marriage license but I couldn't go through with it.....we told everyone we were and we wore wedding rings.
After his ex wife contacted me about the money he owed her things got bad. I'm not sure why really as I believed his story, not hers.
I received a message on his site (that's how his ex got in touch with me) and it wasa threat to me ....and she later threatened my son.
(This is a woman who he told me didn't care about anyone...not even her own daughters) She said she would call social services . She wanted to take my son from his home.
I told him he couldn't come back to my home anymore.....she was going to hurt my family...my son, because she was angry at him. He refused to take care of his problem with her and saw nothing wrong with her threats against me and my family.
He saw nothing wrong with the threats against me and my family.....
When I asked him why anyone in their late 50's (old enough to know better and be an adult was my thinking) would come to me when they had a problem with him he made excuses for her...she was trying to get me to feel sorry for her and give her the money.
HUH? Yes, that's what he said....
When I asked why she threatened me and not him....he said, "That's just what she does."
HUH? He had already told me how not many liked her and she was always in trouble with neighbors...but I still couldn't understand why anyone would come after me and my family if they were angry at him....it made sense to him though....
He then told me about something she thought was fun to do. They would be driving down the road and she would open her car door on someone riding a bike or scooter...as if she was trying to knock them off or at least scare them. These were strangers to her and not someone she had a grudge against.
He said he thought it was disgusting and he wasn't a part of it. He stayed with her though.
Things were just getting to crazy....I didn't want it in my home anymore. He wasn't going to do anything about his problem and he certainly wasn't going to do anything to protect us.....
He went back to Florida again...and his site went down the same day he was leaving. He said it was hacked but I believed he was protecting his ex....it's against the law to communicate a threat and in the state of Florida it's a felony to call DSS to make false accusations about a child when the person making the call is angry at an adult in the home.
My site was taken down too...all I had was lost..all emails etc....some were from her.
Who was he protecting and why? He was the one that had access to both sites. He was an admin on mine as well.....
Posted by N2itive1 at Friday, July 30. 2010 
Categories: Domestic Violence
Tags: abuse domestic violence dv
Categories: Domestic Violence
Tags: abuse domestic violence dv
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